I guess I'd better say it now....

I don't know why I'm doing this.  But I guess I need to get used to it, say it and organize my thoughts.  Tony asked for a clearer explanation of why I broke up with him, and I don't know how to tell him the truth- I'm Gray-A/Ace, or gray-romantic and asexual.  It means I can feel romantic things like wanting to kiss or hold hands, but it's only happened a few times, and besides that I'm platonic towards him- I want to be really good friends, but nothing more, and I know that's not how he thought (thinks?) about me.  I'm confused.  Like I said in previous posts, he's a really good person, he deserves the truthful explanation, but I just don't know what to say.  Does anyone know about this sort of thing?  I've just recently been seriously considering the fact that I'm mostly likely Gray-A/ace, and don't know what he'll think.