Hey, I have a new blog now.
It's much more well thought-out than this one, and I have better ideas for posts. Also, I decided I liked WordPress better than Blogger.
Here it is: http://lifeisaclambar.wordpress.com/
Peace.
Monday, December 22, 2014
Monday, December 8, 2014
Relationships
...are complicated. No, I'm not talking in a still-getting-over-Tony (what I've been calling my ex-boyfriend) kind of way. Though I will admit, Tony's told me that he's liked other girls in the 11 months since we broke up and I am just the tiniest bit jealous. Not because I still like him. It's just that we had a lot and now I don't know if it meant anything.
Anyway, I'm getting off track. Tony's been having a lot of problems with a certain girl he likes- I won't go into detail; that would be rude to him. I've been having problems too, but not really because of people I'm attracted to. They don't exist.
Tony and I are still really good friends, and we tend to trust each other. And Tony is a really good person. In fact, he's too good of a person. He's a rock for the entire world and no one ever supports him, including me. Well, things got really bad for him last week and I've been trying to help him out and he keeps telling me not to because I have my own problems, and I keep telling him not to worry about me because he already worries about too many other people, meanwhile I'm worrying about him.
Do you see the problem here? We need to meet in the middle somehow so we can both help each other, but there's no way for that to happen. Which is rare- I'm generally not that nice and mostly don't care about other peoples' problems; they can deal with it. Except I really care about Tony, and he's the only person I trust. And I'm pretty sure that I'm the only one who knows what's going on with him, too. So it's really a big mess. In my opinion, there can be a situation where friends are too close and nice to each other and me and Tony are in it. It isn't necessarily a bad thing until both of you get hurt worse. And I'm more worried about Tony than me because he worries about everyone and everything, and people always talk to him because he tries to help people; that's just what he does.
Most people could stand to be a little more like him, and he could stand to be a little more like everyone else. What's your opinion? Have you ever been in this situation, and if so, how did it turn out?
Anyway, I'm getting off track. Tony's been having a lot of problems with a certain girl he likes- I won't go into detail; that would be rude to him. I've been having problems too, but not really because of people I'm attracted to. They don't exist.
Tony and I are still really good friends, and we tend to trust each other. And Tony is a really good person. In fact, he's too good of a person. He's a rock for the entire world and no one ever supports him, including me. Well, things got really bad for him last week and I've been trying to help him out and he keeps telling me not to because I have my own problems, and I keep telling him not to worry about me because he already worries about too many other people, meanwhile I'm worrying about him.
Do you see the problem here? We need to meet in the middle somehow so we can both help each other, but there's no way for that to happen. Which is rare- I'm generally not that nice and mostly don't care about other peoples' problems; they can deal with it. Except I really care about Tony, and he's the only person I trust. And I'm pretty sure that I'm the only one who knows what's going on with him, too. So it's really a big mess. In my opinion, there can be a situation where friends are too close and nice to each other and me and Tony are in it. It isn't necessarily a bad thing until both of you get hurt worse. And I'm more worried about Tony than me because he worries about everyone and everything, and people always talk to him because he tries to help people; that's just what he does.
Most people could stand to be a little more like him, and he could stand to be a little more like everyone else. What's your opinion? Have you ever been in this situation, and if so, how did it turn out?
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